Who typically joins SideQuests trips?

Our trips attract a diverse community, primarily LGBTQ+ travelers in their 20s-60s who are looking for meaningful connections and authentic experiences. We welcome allies and friends of all identities who share our values of inclusivity, curiosity, and openness.

How large are your groups?

We keep our groups intentionally small, typically 16-24 travelers, to foster genuine connections and allow for more intimate, authentic local experiences that wouldn't be possible with larger groups.

What's included in the trip price?

Each trip is slightly different, but most SideQuests trips include boutique accommodations, most meals (with options), excursions and guided activities, a bilingual local guide, private group transportation, and your hosts. You can view all the trip-specific inclusions on each individual trip page. Airfare to and from the destination is not included. You'll receive a detailed packing list and itinerary before departure.

What's your cancellation policy?

If your booking is still pending (the trip hasn't been confirmed yet), you're eligible for a full refund, including your 25% deposit. Once the trip is confirmed (after 12 travelers have booked), your deposit becomes non-refundable. If you need to cancel after confirmation, you'll receive a Credit Voucher for the amount paid, minus a $100 cancellation fee. After the 90-day mark before the trip, all payments become non-refundable, since hotels, transportation, and activities have already been paid for. We strongly recommend purchasing travel insurance.

Do you offer payment plans?

You can reserve your spot with a 25% deposit and pay the rest in installments through Affirm. To do this, you must register a virtual card through Affirm.

Yes! Most people do. We design our trips to foster connection from day one, and many travelers arrive solo but leave with lifelong friends. We create plenty of opportunities to bond with the group while also respecting everyone's need for personal space and independence.

Do I need to be an experienced traveler?

Not at all. Our trips are built with support and guidance baked in, from group chats and Zoom intros to arrival instructions and packing tips. You don't need to be a seasoned traveler, just someone ready to say yes.

How do room arrangements work?

We offer both shared and private accommodation options. Many solo travelers choose to share rooms (with separate beds) to save on costs and enhance the community experience. If you prefer your own space, single supplements are available for an additional fee.

Do I have to be LGBTQ+ to join?

Not at all. While our trips are centered around queer community and joy, allies are absolutely welcome, as long as you're here with respect, openness, and a good sense of humor.

How physically active are these trips?

Most trips include a mix of walking, light hikes, or outdoor activities, but we always include downtime, optional excursions, and flexible pacing.

Are trips accessible for people with disabilities?

We strive to make our trips as accessible as possible and work with travelers on a case-by-case basis. Some destinations have inherent accessibility challenges, but we're committed to finding solutions whenever possible. Please contact us directly to discuss your specific needs.

What airport do I fly into?

Fly into Noi Bai International Airport (HAN) in Hanoi. All included airport transfers are timed around HAN arrivals and departures, so booking flights in and out of Hanoi keeps your logistics simple.

When does the tour begin and end?

The trip runs March 14-20, 2027. The first official activity kicks off in Hanoi on March 14th at approximately 5:30pm, so we recommend arriving that morning or the day before to settle in and adjust to the time change. The tour wraps up in Hanoi after breakfast on the final morning, with an included transfer back to HAN timed to your departure flight.

Is Vietnam safe for LGBTQ+ travelers?

Generally, yes. Same-sex relationships and same-sex sexual activity are legal in Vietnam, and the country is considered one of the more progressive destinations for LGBTQ+ travelers in Southeast Asia; Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City both have annual VietPride events. Vietnam remains socially conservative outside the big cities, same-sex marriage isn't legally recognized, and there are no nationwide anti-discrimination protections. Most travelers find it a comfortable, low-hassle destination, especially as part of a group trip. At SideQuests Travel, we only offer tours through LGBTQ+ friendly and enthusiastic tour operators.

Is Hanoi LGBTQ+ friendly?

Hanoi's gay nightlife scene is smaller and more low-key than Ho Chi Minh City's, but it's there: a handful of gay bars, LGBTQ+ friendly cafes, and a growing presence around the Old Quarter. Locals tend to be private about their relationships in public, and PDA of any kind is uncommon, but travelers generally report feeling safe and welcome.

Are Ninh Binh and Ha Long Bay LGBTQ+ friendly?

Ninh Binh and Ha Long Bay are rural and small-town by comparison to Hanoi, so there isn't a visible LGBTQ+ scene, but that also means there's little to worry about in terms of hostility. As with most of Vietnam, general social conservatism means it's best to keep public displays of affection low-key, more out of local custom than personal safety concern. Traveling as part of our group, you'll be surrounded by fellow LGBTQ+ travelers, a knowledgeable guide, and a host keeping the vibes strong.

Do I need a visa to visit Vietnam?

Yes. U.S. citizens and most nationalities need a visa to enter Vietnam; there's no visa-free exemption for Americans. The easiest option is Vietnam's e-visa, applied for online before you travel, valid for up to 90 days. You'll need a passport valid for at least 6 months beyond your entry date and at least 2 blank visa pages. Processing typically takes a few business days, so apply at least 2-3 weeks before departure. Always confirm current requirements with the official Vietnam e-visa portal or your embassy, since rules can change.

Do I need any vaccines for Vietnam?

There are no vaccines required for entry, but routine vaccines (MMR, Tdap, polio) should be up to date, and the CDC recommends Hepatitis A and Typhoid for most travelers to Vietnam, since both spread through food and water. Depending on your health history and how much time you'll spend outdoors in rural areas, your doctor may also discuss Hepatitis B, Japanese encephalitis, or rabies. Malaria isn't a concern for Hanoi, Ninh Binh, or Ha Long Bay specifically. Book a travel health consult 4-6 weeks before departure if you can.

What's the weather in Northern Vietnam like in March?

Expect mild, pleasant spring weather: daytime highs around 68-80°F (20-27°C) in Hanoi, with cooler mornings and evenings in the low-to-mid 60s°F. Ha Long Bay and Ninh Binh run a bit cooler and mistier, often in the high 60s to low 70s°F, with light drizzle possible. March is a transitional month between Vietnam's cool, dry winter and its humid spring. Layers are your friend.

What should I pack for Hanoi, Ninh Binh, and Ha Long Bay?

Pack light layers for cool mornings and warmer afternoons, a packable rain jacket or umbrella, comfortable walking shoes, closed-toe shoes or sandals you don't mind getting muddy for the farm experience, a swimsuit for Ha Long Bay, a light jacket for cruise evenings, sunscreen, a hat, insect repellent, a universal power adapter (Vietnam uses 220V, type A/C/G outlets), and modest clothing for temple visits.

Where can I find more information about gay travel in Vietnam?

Check out organizations like ICS Vietnam (Information, Counseling and Support for LGBT People) and VietPride for local community context, and the U.S. State Department's Vietnam travel page for the latest safety and entry information. For more general FAQ on SideQuests trips, visit the SideQuests FAQ page.

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Vietnam Gay Group Trip: Hanoi, Ninh Binh and Ha Long Bay

7 Days, 6 Nights

March 14th-20th, 2027

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Hosted by Ryan Lee

About This Trip

Join SideQuests host Ryan on this 7-day adventure of a lifetime through Northern Vietnam! This is an inclusive LGBTQ+ group trip designed for couples, solo travelers, and groups of friends alike. This trip is all about self-discovery, exploration, and making some lifelong friends and memories along the way. See information on this Northern Vietnam tour below!

We start in Hanoi, Vietnam's capital of delightful chaos, where a thousand motorbikes somehow never collide and the smell of fresh baguettes and simmering pho follows you down every alley. We'll explore the city the way locals actually live it: traditional Vietnamese coffee at a neighborhood café to start the morning, banh mi from a local shop that will quietly ruin every other sandwich for you, then onward through the Old Quarter and the buzzing Dong Xuan Market. We'll visit the Temple of Literature, Vietnam's first national university, and cap the day with a rickshaw ride through the bustling streets... equal parts thrilling and hilarious.
Midway through the week we head south to Ninh Binh, the region everyone calls "Ha Long Bay on land," which sounds like a marketing line until you're standing in the middle of it. We'll cycle at an easy pace past canals, rice paddies, and tiny villages, then drift by traditional sampan boat through Tam Coc, a UNESCO landscape where the river slides right beneath limestone caves. The next day is the one nobody expects to become their favorite: a morning on a working farm where we feed and bathe water buffalo, plant rice with our own hands, and cook a home-style lunch alongside a local farmer... then an evening at Thung Nham Bird Sanctuary, watching thousands of birds return to roost at sunset. Our home base for it all is the five-star Emeralda Ninh Binh Resort, tucked into all that green.
Then, the grand finale: an overnight luxury cruise through Ha Long Bay, sleeping in private cabins aboard a 5-star ship as thousands of limestone karsts rise out of emerald water around you. (People say it feels like sailing through the movie Avatar. People are right.) We'll kayak into a limestone cave, swim in the bay, try traditional squid fishing under the night sky, and wake up for sunrise Tai Chi on the upper deck. There's a surprise activity onboard too... we're not telling.
If Vietnam has been on your list but you've been waiting for the right people to go with, this is the trip. That's the entire reason we exist. This one is thoughtfully paced on purpose. Ryan's whole travel philosophy is that the people make the experience even more than the place does, and that the best trips happen when you stop rushing and start paying attention... to where you are, who's around you, and the version of yourself that shows up when you finally slow down.
Big adventure days balance with optional morning meditations, a Queer Connection and Community-Building Workshop, and free evenings to wander, eat, and connect. It's gay adventure travel with room to breathe. And if you've been searching for gay solo travel that doesn't actually feel solo, most of our travelers come solo! Our bilingual local guide and host Ryan will take excellent care of you from the moment you land in Hanoi to your final morning, with all airport transfers included.
One more thing: can't get enough Vietnam? Join Ryan early on our Southern Vietnam pre-trip extension ... 5 days and 4 nights, March 10th–14th, before the main tour begins.

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Vietnam's capital through its flavors and rhythms: traditional Vietnamese coffee at a neighborhood café, banh mi that resets your standards permanently, the Temple of Literature, and a rickshaw ride through the Old Quarter's beautiful chaos.
Cycle at an easy pace past canals, rice paddies, and villages, then drift by traditional sampan boat through Tam Coc, a UNESCO landscape where the river slips beneath limestone caves. A photographer's paradise doesn't quite cover it.
Hike up a giant granite monolith for a panorama view over a maze of blue-green lakes, then after a luxurious lunch at one of the best restaurants in the area, cruise those same waters on our own private boat. Finish off with a visit to Guatapé town to shop, eat, drink and be merry! Bring your camera!

Tour Highlights

Sleep in a private cabin aboard a 5-star ship among thousands of limestone karsts rising from emerald water. Kayak into a cave, swim in the bay, try squid fishing under the night sky, and wake up for sunrise Tai Chi on the upper deck. It feels like sailing through Avatar, and we mean that literally.
Enjoy a guided tour through the 500-year-old UNESCO Walled City and San Felipe fortress. This city is beautiful and the architecture, stunning. Explore coffee shops, vendor stalls, dreamy Spanish streets and more. You leave with the history and the pictures to prove it.
Can't get enough? Join Ryan early for 5 days and 4 nights in Southern Vietnam , March 10th–14th, rolling straight into the main tour.
Travel alongside a small group of LGBTQ+ travelers with a bilingual local guide, thoughtful logistics, and host Ryan there the whole way. Optional morning meditations, a Queer Connection and Community-Building Workshop, and the kind of trip where the group chat outlives the trip by years.

What’s Included?

Multi-tiered Vietnamese pagoda tower with golden dragon sculptures and red lanterns in Hanoi

Dozens of fishing boats moored at sunset in Ha Long Bay, with karst mountain silhouettes and golden reflections.

Included

✔ 12 Premium Excursions

Pricing:

Traveling solo and enjoy the extra space? We get it, not everyone wants to share a room! Add this private individual room option to reserve your private quarters.
For ease, reserve your accommodations for one night at our 5-star host hotel in Hanoi before your trip starts. Your reservations will be linked so you don't have to check-out/check-in to a new room on the 14th. Rate INCLUDES complimentary breakfast for 1 or 2 people.
For ease, reserve your accommodations for one night at our 5-star host hotel in Hanoi after your tour ends. Your reservations will be linked so you don't have to check-out/check-in to a new room on the 20th. Rate INCLUDES complimentary breakfast for 1 or 2 people.

Not sure which add-ons you want to book? No worries! Add-ons can be added or subtracted from your reservation until 90-days before the start of the trip!

Add-Ons:

Only a 25% deposit is due to book. The remaining balance isn't due until 90 days pre-trip. Your deposit is 100% refundable until the trip is confirmed (that's when 12 travelers have booked). Prefer monthly payments? Some guests use Affirm's virtual card at checkout.

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Trip Itinerary:

March 14th - 20th, 2027

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Welcome to Hanoi! Upon arrival at Noi Bai International Airport (HAN), you’ll be met by our local SideQuests team holding welcome signage and transferred by private bus to our hotel in the lively city center, Le Chenvre. After check-in, you’ll have time to refresh and settle in after your journey.

In the evening, we’ll come together for an included welcome dinner, where the group can finally meet, connect, and officially kick off our incredible North Vietnam SideQuest. This is where the excitement begins! Exact meeting times and details will be shared on our group WhatsApp chat and the official timed-guide released closer to the trip date.
Land at HAN, and we take it from there. Your private transfer to the hotel is included, so there's no haggling with taxis on day one. Arrival details will be arranged closer to the trip.
We're ECSTATIC you're here! We'll gather for a drink at one of the great bars in central Hanoi at or near the hotel before dinner and cheers to the start of an amazing week together.
Our first evening together includes a group dinner at a local restaurant, offering a relaxed introduction to Vietnamese cuisine and a chance to get to know your fellow travelers. Dinner includes a set menu of starters, main course, desert and unlimited waters, soft drinks and Vietnam beers.
We’ll spend the night at Le Chenvre Hotel and Spa, a centrally located 4-star boutique hotel in Hanoi and a super comfortable home base as our journey begins.

Colourful silk lanterns lining a narrow café-lined train track alley in Hanoi's Old Quarter, Vietnam.

Day 1

Welcome to Vietnam!

After breakfast, we’ll head out to explore Hanoi through its flavors, daily rhythms and beats of the streets, and its iconic historic landmarks. We’ll start the morning like the locals do, seated at a neighborhood café enjoying traditional Vietnamese coffee (YUMMY!), followed by a classic (and perhaps spicy) banh mi stop to understand why this simple sandwich is known around the world. If you think you've had good banh mi before... just wait!
From there, we’ll visit some of the city's most prized landmarks and architectural wonders, like the Temple of Literature, Vietnam’s first national university, where our guide will share insight into the country’s philosophies, beliefs, and architectural traditions. We’ll continue on foot through the Old Quarter toward Dong Xuan Market, experiencing the city’s sights, sounds, and everyday life up close and personal. This is truly one of the best ways to experience local life in Hanoi! Your included lunch will be enjoyed at a local restaurant before ending the afternoon with an unforgettable rickshaw ride through Hanoi’s bustling streets.
Enjoy a delicious American-style and Vietnamese breakfast buffet at the hotel prior to a day full of adventure.
Today is all about getting oriented: not just geographically, but culturally too. Through coffee shops, markets, historic sites, and vibrant neighborhood streets, we’ll experience Hanoi as it’s lived in day to day, gaining context and comfort in the city we’ll soon feel at home exploring. This is all about taking in the sights, sounds and flavors of local Vietnamese life!
This guided excursion begins with a coffee at a quintessential neighborhood cafe, followed by banh mi at a local shop. Next we'll tour historic sites like the Temple of Literature and Hanoi's Old Quarter. Then, we continue onward to explore the Dong Xuan Market.
The tour ends with an included lunch at a favorite local restaurant. Lunch includes a set menu of Vietnamese courses with starters, main course, vegetables, rice and desert.
After lunch, we’ll sit back and take in Hanoi from a different perspective on a guided rickshaw ride through the Old Quarter. This gentle ride winds through lively streets and narrow lanes, offering a thrilling and memorable look at the city’s energy and charm.
We’ll return to Le Chenvre for the evening, with dinner on our own and time to relax or explore nearby at our own pace. If you'd like to join some from the group for dinner, your guide and host will provide some options!

Aerial view of terraced rice fields and scattered village homes across lush green mountains in northern Vietnam

Day 2

Hanoi City Discovery, Local Food, and Rickshaw

This morning, we’ll check out from our hotel and depart Hanoi for a scenic drive on private coach south to the town of Ninh Binh, often referred to as “Ha Long Bay on land” - meaning, this place is unbelievably gorgeous. Upon arrival in Ninh Binh, we’ll hop on bicycles and begin a leisurely ride along idyllic village trails, canals, and rice farms, crossing small bridges and stopping as often as we’d like for photos and sightseeing. Midday, we’ll visit the historic and beautiful Thai Vi Temple before enjoying lunch on our own at a local restaurant.
In the afternoon, we’ll board traditional sampan boats for a peaceful guided ride through Tam Coc. This stunning UNESCO World Heritage area in Vietnam's Ninh Binh province is famous for its dramatic limestone mountains, lush rice paddies, and serene river. Drifting along narrow canals, we’ll glide beneath natural caves, and take in the quiet beauty of this iconic landscape. This is a photographer's paradise! Afterward, we’ll check-in at our countryside resort and enjoy a relaxed evening at leisure.
Enjoy a delicious American-style and Vietnamese breakfast buffet at the hotel prior to a day full of adventure.
Our guided bike ride tour offers an up-close look at rural life in northern Vietnam... winding past farms, waterways, and small picturesque villages, with plenty of opportunities to pause, take photos, and soak in the scenery at an easy, unhurried pace. This is an experience of the good life!
Following our guided bike ride, we'll make a stop at Thai Vi Temple to take in this historic and iconic site. Then, we'll have time to enjoy lunch on our own. Your tour guide will be available to provide recommendations!
This tranquil guided boat journey is a highlight of the trip, showcasing Ninh Binh’s dramatic natural beauty from the water. With a local rower guiding us through caves and canals, it’s a peaceful, cinematic experience that perfectly captures the magic of the region. Sit back, relax, and take it all in.
We’ll spend the night at the prized Emeralda Ninh Bình Resort, a serene five-star retreat surrounded by nature. This is the perfect place for us to unwind after a full and memorable day exploring the beauty of Ninh Binh! We are free to enjoy dinner at leisure. Our guide will provide some recommendations, and of course there will be opportunity to dine in groups around the area.

Traveler in a conical hat gazing over the Tam Coc river valley and karst peaks in Ninh Binh, Vietnam.

Day 3

Hanoi to Ninh Binh, Sailing Among Rice Farms

Today is all about slowing down and immersing ourselves in the natural rhythms of Ninh Binh. Following a delicious included breakfast at our resort, we'll head out for a full day of exploring. We start with a short private drive from our hotel, and we'll spend the morning experiencing rural life alongside local farmers. One of the best and most authentic ways to experience a destination is to see what life is like outside the city, where the true elements of culture coalesce. We’ll visit a buffalo cave and learn about the essential role water buffalo play in rice farming. And of course, we'll have time to feed, bathe, and even ride the buffalo before heading into the rice fields to try planting rice ourselves! Yes, we're getting real down and dirty here, if you'd like!
The morning wraps up with a hands-on cooking experience, where we’ll prepare simple local dishes together with a local farmer, followed by a home-style included lunch.
In the afternoon, we’ll head to Thung Nham Bird Sanctuary, where we’ll explore the sanctuary by boat and on foot. As the day winds down, we’ll enjoy a peaceful sunset as flocks of birds return to their nests, a quiet, memorable close to the day. Return to our resort for dinner on our own and a relaxing evening.
Enjoy a delicious American-style and Vietnamese breakfast buffet at the hotel prior to a day full of adventure.
This immersive morning offers a rare look into daily agricultural life in rural Vietnam. We'll learn about the ins and outs of rural life in this picturesque region of Vietnam, followed by visiting a buffalo cave. There we will have the opportunity to feed, bathe, and even ride the buffalow before heading int o the rice fields to try planting rice ourselves! As working in the rice fields is an essential part of life in rural Vietnam, during this memorable experience you can get your hands dirty if you so choose!
Following our experience on the farm, we'll take part in a cooking demonstration where we'll learn all about combining local flavors to create a traditional Vietnamese meal. Then, we'll share the meal we all prepared together. This is a meaningful way to connect with local traditions and slow the pace of travel. Lunch includes a typical local Vietnamese spread.
In the afternoon, we’ll explore the lush landscapes of Thung Nham, combining gentle hiking and a scenic boat ride through the sanctuary. The highlight comes at sunset, when birds return in great numbers — a serene, almost cinematic moment to end the day.
We’ll return to Emeralda Ninh Bình Resort for another restful evening surrounded by nature. We're free for dinner on our own, and our guide will be available to recommend options where we can dine separately or together in groups.

Day 4

Vietnamese Rural Farm Experience & Bird Sanctuary in Ninh Binh

Traditional cruise boats on turquoise waters surrounded by limestone karst islands in Ha Long Bay, Vietnam.

Day 5

Halong Bay: Overnight Cruise Among Limestone Karsts

This morning, we'll have a delicious included breakfast at the resort. Then we'll check out and say goodbye to Ninh Binh for a scenic private drive east toward Ha Long Bay.
Upon arrival, we’ll board the Halong Heritage Cruise, check into our private cabins, and enjoy an included lunch onboard as we begin cruising through this world-renowned natural landscape. This otherworldly location is mind-blowing and one of the top sites recommended to visit in all of Vietnam!
In the afternoon, we’ll anchor near a small islet to explore a limestone cave filled with dramatic stalactites and stalagmites, or take the opportunity to relax onboard and enjoy the scenery. As the sun sets, we’ll enjoy an included dinner on board, then unwind with optional squid fishing! A super unique, fun, and super Vietnamese experience on the upper deck under the night sky.
Enjoy a delicious American-style and Vietnamese breakfast buffet at the hotel prior to a day full of adventure.
This afternoon blends gentle adventure and relaxation, with cave exploration, open-water swimming, and uninterrupted time to take in Ha Long Bay’s extraordinary beauty at an unhurried pace. Our onboard lunch is included. Lunch onboard includes a buffet with a variety of hot stations, salads, desserts, and breads. Drinks are available for purchase additionally. We'll have time to relax on the upper deck, taking in the iconic limestone karsts jutting out of the emerald green waters. Then, after we set anchor, we'll have the opportunity to kayak into a limestone cave to get an up-close and personal look to these unbelievable natural structures. There's also time to take a dip and swim in the warm waters of the bay. Afterwards, there's a fun surprise activity before we settled own for dinner.
Dinner is served onboard the cruise and included in your itinerary. Dinner includes a set menu with two starters, two main courses, and one dessert. Drinks are available for purchase additionally.
After dinner, enjoy the option at trying your hand at squid fishing! This traditional activity can be quite thrilling and fun! Enjoy fresh air and stargazing from the deck, or take some well-deserved downtime in your private cabin.
Tonight, we’ll stay in private cabins aboard the 5-star Halong Heritage Cruise, offering comfort, stunning views, and the unforgettable experience of sleeping on the water in Ha Long Bay.

For those who wish, the day begins early with fresh air and a beautiful sunrise over Ha Long Bay. We’ll gather on the upper deck for a gentle Tai Chi session, taking in the calm morning light before enjoying an included breakfast onboard.
After breakfast, we’ll continue exploring the bay with time for kayaking among the islets, additional swimming stops, or simply relaxing on board and soaking in the scenery at your own pace.
Following an included lunch onboard, we’ll check out of the cruise and begin our journey back to Hanoi. After checking in and some time to refresh at the hotel, we’ll come together in the evening for an included farewell dinner, celebrating the amazing memories and connections we've made throughout our North Vietnam SideQuest!
Enjoy a delicious American-style and Vietnamese breakfast buffet onboard prior to a day full of adventure.
The morning offers a peaceful close to our time on the water, with optional Tai Chi at sunrise (the view is unbelievable)! Take the time to kayak through limestone formations, grab some stunning photos, and take a dip to swim in the emerald waters, or relax before we return to the mainland.
Enjoy one final included lunch as we cruise through this unbelievable UNESCO World Heritage Site. Take in the views, relax on the deck, and prepare for our journey back to Hanoi. Lunch onboard includes a buffet with a variety of hot stations, salads, desserts, and breads. Drinks are available for purchase additionally.
Once we dock, we'll board our private coach to return to Hanoi, making stops for bathroom breaks along the way. Our final evening together features an included farewell dinner in Hanoi, a relaxed and celebratory moment to reflect, share stories, and toast an unforgettable week together in Vietnam. Dinner includes a set menu of starters, main course, dessert and unlimited waters, soft drinks and Vietnam beers.
We’ll return to Le Chenvre, our boutique four-star hotel in central Hanoi for our final overnight stay. Relax, unwind, and take in this lively city by night.

Group of kayakers paddling through a dramatic limestone sea cave on Ha Long Bay, Vietnam

Day 6

Halong Bay Exploration, Kayaking the Islets, and Return to Hanoi

After an included breakfast in at our boutique hotel, the day is yours to enjoy at your own pace until it’s time for your airport transfer, or continuing your journey to wherever your next destination may be! Whether you choose to take a final stroll, do some last-minute shopping, or simply relax, this is a gentle wrap-up to an incredible week.
Private transfers to Noi Bai International Airport (HAN) will be provided based on flight times to make your departure as smooth as possible. Exact transfer timing will be shared closer to the trip date.
One final breakfast at Le Chenvre before checkout, or before continuing your adventure onward!
Your private transfer from the hotel to HAN is included... one last SideQuests detail handled so your only job is making your flight. Book departures out of Hanoi, Vietnam.
All departures are scheduled from Noi Bai International Airport (HAN). If you’re continuing your travels elsewhere in Vietnam or Southeast Asia, we’re happy to help coordinate logistics or provide some recommendations for your next steps.

Your host will be available to assist with timing and travel questions to ensure an easy and stress-free departure. Big hugs as we depart, the goodbye is always the most difficult part of the trip! Cheers to one of the best weeks ever... I'm excited for this and so glad to have you join the group!

Motorbikes blur past lantern-lit shop fronts on a busy street in Hanoi's Old Quarter, Vietnam.

Day 7

Farewell & Onward Travel from Hanoi

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Extend Your Trip: Southern Vietnam

March 10th–14th | from $1,199

Already flying halfway around the world? Add the south. This 4-night pre-tour extension drops you into electric Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) before the main trip kicks off, so you shake the jetlag, get an early taste of Vietnam, and bond with a handful of fellow travelers before the full group comes together in Hanoi. With a local guide the whole way, you'll wander the French Quarter, learn the art of Vietnamese coffee, descend into the Cu Chi Tunnels, and drift through the lush canals of the Mekong Delta by boat, capped by a dawn visit to the Can Tho floating market and an included flight north to meet the group.

The highlight: a night street food tour by motorbike, riding through Saigon's lit-up back alleys on the back of a bike and eating your way through banh xeo, pho, and whatever else the night serves up, on plastic stools in lanes no tour bus could ever reach. This is Saigon as a lived experience, not a sightseeing one.

From $1,199 per person.

Meet Your Host

Ryan is a full-time digital nomad and experienced group travel host who has led multi-day trips since 2022. As the founder of Capsule Adventures, a sober travel company, he brings a calm, organized, and deeply thoughtful approach to creating trips that feel smooth, safe, and genuinely meaningful. Passionate about LGBTQ+ community-building, Ryan creates spaces where queer travelers can fully relax, be themselves, and move through the world together. Having traveled to nearly 40 countries, he believes the best travel moments happen in the in-between, the late nights, shared laughter, and unexpected connections. He’s deeply invested in making sure everyone feels taken care of… and of course, he isn’t shy of a little light roasting, and to break out some humor along the way. He's leading SideQuests adventures in 2026 and 2027, including an incredible gay group trip to Peru!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Have questions specific to this trip? Here are some common questions about our adventure.

Our trips attract a diverse community, primarily LGBTQ+ travelers in their 20s-60s who are looking for meaningful connections and authentic experiences. We welcome allies and friends of all identities who share our values of inclusivity, curiosity, and openness.
We keep our groups intentionally small—typically 16-24 travelers—to foster genuine connections and allow for more intimate, authentic local experiences that wouldn't be possible with larger groups.
Each trip is slightly different, but most SideQuests include:
- Boutique accommodations
- Most meals (with options)
- Excursions + guided activities
- A bilingual local guide
- Private group transportation
- Your hosts (hi, that’s us!)
You can view all the trip-specific inclusions on each individual trip page. Airfare to and from the destination is not included. You'll receive a detailed packing list and itinerary before departure.
If your booking is still pending (meaning the trip hasn’t been confirmed yet), you’re eligible for a full refund — including your 25% deposit.
Once the trip is confirmed (after 12 travelers have booked), your deposit becomes non-refundable. If you need to cancel after confirmation, you’ll receive a Credit Voucher for the amount paid (minus a $100 cancellation fee).
After the 90-day mark before the trip, all payments become non-refundable, since hotels, transportation, and activities have already been paid for. Any exceptions at that point are at the discretion of our local partners.
We strongly recommend purchasing travel insurance — it really is worth it.
You can reserve your spot with a 25% deposit and pay the rest in installments through Affirm. In order to do this, you must register a virtual card through Affirm.
Yes! Most people do. We design our trips to foster connection from day one, and many travelers arrive solo but leave with lifelong friends (and at least one new group chat). SideQuests are specifically designed to foster connection, so coming alone is actually the perfect way to experience our trips. We create plenty of opportunities to bond with the group while also respecting everyone's need for personal space and independence.
Not at all! Our trips are great for all experience levels. We’ve got you. Our trips are built with support and guidance baked in, from our group chats and Zoom intros to arrival instructions and packing tips. You don’t need to be a seasoned traveler, just someone ready to say yes.
We offer both shared and private accommodation options. Many solo travelers choose to share rooms (with separate beds) to save on costs and enhance the community experience. If you prefer your own space, single supplements are available for an additional fee (listed during checkout).
Not at all! While our trips are centered around queer community and joy, allies are absolutely welcome — as long as you’re here with respect, openness, and a good sense of humor!
Most trips include a mix of walking, light hikes, or outdoor activities — but we always include downtime, optional excursions, and flexible pacing. You do you, with a group that gets it.
We strive to make our trips as accessible as possible and work with travelers on a case-by-case basis. Some destinations have inherent accessibility challenges, but we're committed to finding solutions whenever possible. Please contact us directly to discuss your specific needs.

Fly into Noi Bai International Airport (HAN) in Hanoi. All included airport transfers are timed around HAN arrivals and departures, so booking flights in and out of Hanoi keeps your logistics simple.
The trip runs March 14–20, 2027. The first official activity kicks off in Hanoi on March 14th at approximately 5:30pm, so we recommend arriving that morning or the day before to settle in and adjust to the time change. The tour wraps up in Hanoi after breakfast on the final morning, with an included transfer back to HAN timed to your departure flight.
Generally, yes. Same-sex relationships and same-sex sexual activity are legal in Vietnam, and the country is considered one of the more progressive destinations for LGBTQ+ travelers in Southeast Asia - Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City both have annual VietPride events.

Still, Vietnam remains socially conservative outside the big cities, same-sex marriage still isn't legally recognized, and there are no nationwide anti-discrimination protections. Most travelers find it a comfortable, low-hassle destination, especially as part of a group trip. At SideQuests Travel, we only offer tours through LGBTQ+ friendly and enthusiastic tour operators.
Hanoi's gay nightlife scene is smaller and more low-key than Ho Chi Minh City's, but it's there… a handful of gay bars, LGBTQ+ friendly cafés, and a growing presence around the Old Quarter. Locals tend to be private about their relationships in public, and PDA of any kind (queer or straight) is uncommon, but travelers generally report feeling safe and welcome.
Ninh Binh and Halong Bay are rural and small-town by comparison to Hanoi, so there isn't a visible LGBTQ+ scene, but that also means there's little to worry about in terms of hostility. As with most of Vietnam, general social conservatism means it's best to keep public displays of affection low-key, more out of local custom than personal safety concern. Traveling as part of our group, you'll be surrounded by fellow LGBTQ+ travelers, a guide who knows the region like the back of their hand, and a host keeping the great vibes strong.
Yes. U.S. citizens (and most nationalities) need a visa to enter Vietnam. There's no visa-free exemption for Americans. The easiest option is Vietnam's e-visa, applied for online before you travel, valid for up to 90 days. You'll need a passport valid for at least 6 months beyond your entry date and at least 2 blank visa pages. Processing typically takes a few business days, so apply at least 2–3 weeks before departure to be safe. Always confirm current requirements with the official Vietnam e-visa portal or your embassy, since rules can change.
There are no vaccines required for entry, but routine vaccines (MMR, Tdap, polio) should be up to date, and the CDC recommends Hepatitis A and Typhoid for most travelers to Vietnam, since both spread through food and water. Depending on your health history and how much time you'll spend outdoors in rural areas, your doctor may also discuss Hepatitis B, Japanese encephalitis, or rabies. Since our itinerary includes farm visits and rural excursions in Ninh Binh, it's worth mentioning that to your travel clinic. Malaria isn't a concern for Hanoi, Ninh Binh, or Halong Bay specifically. Book a travel health consult 4–6 weeks before departure if you can.
Expect mild, pleasant spring weather: daytime highs around 68–80°F (20–27°C) in Hanoi, with cooler mornings and evenings in the low-to-mid 60s°F. Halong Bay and Ninh Binh run a bit cooler and mistier, often in the high 60s to low 70s°F, with light drizzle possible. March is a transitional month between Vietnam's cool, dry winter and its humid spring. Layers are your friend here!
- Light layers — a breathable long-sleeve or light sweater for cool mornings/evenings, short sleeves for midday
- A packable rain jacket or umbrella (March brings occasional drizzle)
- Comfortable walking shoes for cobblestone streets, temple visits, and the rickshaw/cycling tours
- Closed-toe shoes or sandals you don't mind getting muddy for the farm and rice-planting experience
- A swimsuit for Halong Bay (swimming and kayaking are on the itinerary)
- A light jacket for the cruise, since evenings on the water can be breezy
- Sunscreen, a hat, and insect repellent
- A universal power adapter (Vietnam uses 220V, with type A/C/G outlets)
- Modest, comfortable clothing for temple visits (shoulders/knees covered)
Check out organizations like ICS Vietnam (Information, Counseling and Support for LGBT People) and VietPride for local community context, and the U.S. State Department's Vietnam travel page for the latest safety and entry information. For more general FAQ on SideQuests trips, visit sidequeststravel.com/faq.

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About SideQuests Travel

Hi, I'm Matthew, co-founder of SideQuests Travel. I created SideQuests because I didn't want to just see the world, I wanted to make new friends and build-up my community while doing it. I wanted to see an amazing place in the world and come home feeling changed, so I started hosting trips for people who wanted the same.
SideQuests runs small-group adventures for LGBTQ+ travelers who want to see the world while actually connecting with others and themselves.
The moment you book, you're added to the trip's WhatsApp chat and invited to our monthly Zoom calls, so by the time you land, you already know a bit about each person embarking on the adventure with you. On most group tours, you finally click with the others right as everyone packs to leave,
but on our trips, that happens before anyone boards a plane.
We offer optional journal prompts and meditations for those that would like to participate, and a community workshop mid-trip where people share stories and truly get the opportunity to connect on a very real level.
SideQuests Travel is for everyone who wants a fun, community-focused tour that’s adventurous, welcoming, and transformative.
Every hotel, guide, and operator is vetted through an LGBTQ+ lens ensuring that travel is not only safe, but enthusiastically welcoming.
Come solo, come with a friend, or a partner, and leave with a new group of friends and strengthened sense of community. We're not just building great experiences, we're building a supportive network of people you'll literally want to plan your next trip alongside.

Where You’ll Stay

Your home base for three nights, Le Chenvre is a French colonial-style boutique hotel tucked in Hanoi's historic Old Quarter, just steps from Hoan Kiem Lake. Expect elegant, comfortable rooms, a rooftop pool and terrace with city views, an on-site spa, and easy walking access to the markets, cafés, and nightlife of the Old Quarter. You'll stay here on arrival (nights 1 & 2) and return for your final night (night 6) before departure.
Set on the edge of the Van Long Nature Reserve, surrounded by limestone mountains and rice fields, Emeralda Ninh Bình Resort is a serene 5-star countryside retreat built with traditional Vietnamese architecture and natural materials. The resort features indoor and outdoor pools, a spa, multiple restaurants, and spacious rooms with private balconies — the perfect place to unwind after days spent cycling, boating, and farming in the surrounding countryside.
You'll spend your fifth night in a private cabin aboard the 5-star Halong Heritage Cruise sailing through Ha Long Bay's limestone karsts. Cabins are designed in an elegant Indochine style with large windows (many with private balconies) looking out over the bay, and the ship features an upper sundeck, dining rooms, and lounge areas for taking in the scenery. Falling asleep and waking up on the water, surrounded by towering limestone islands, is one of the most memorable nights of the whole trip.

Across the week, you'll move through three very different homes-away-from-home: a boutique hotel in the heart of Hanoi's Old Quarter, a countryside resort surrounded by rice paddies and mountains, and a private cabin aboard an overnight cruise ship. All are 4- and 5-star, all are available at double occupancy (2 travelers per room) with single rooms available for an added supplement.

All accommodations feature private bathrooms and daily made-to-order breakfast. Solo travelers can choose between shared rooms (with another solo traveler, partner or friend), or a completely private room for an additional supplement. If a friend or partner is coming with you but booking separately, no need to worry... we send out a questionnaire to get your roommate of choice or rooming preferences in order ahead of the trip.

Testimonials From Our Travelers

“We felt like family just a day or two into the actual trip.”

David, Greece
"It’s wild how quickly a group of queer travelers became a little family. From late-night laughs to deep conversations, this trip gave me so much more than I expected."

JJ, Costa Rica
"I’ve already signed up for three more trips! I’ve never felt more welcome in a group setting."

David, Thailand
"He made sure everyone felt included and was enjoying themselves... He checked in with everyone to make sure we were all onboard with our schedules and feeling good about the trip overall.”

Thomas, Greece
"Matthew created an environment welcoming and safe for everyone (regardless of gender identity or sexuality) to have an amazing trip.”

Sam, Greece
“Michael and Matt were great at breaking down barriers and helping all feel welcome.”

Kevin, Costa Rica